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Alarming Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE) for kids says what?

  • By Kimberly Perry
  • 18 Sep, 2020

The Kinsey Coverup of Child Sexual Abuse

The Dangers of CSE on Our Doorsteps


Have you noticed backlash against the Netflix movie Cuties plus numerous child sex trafficking's ring busts in the news lately?

Essentially, there is a war on children world-wide! One of the battles against children could be defined as

Preserving and protecting the innocence of children
with boundaries and personal safety
(preventing child sexual abuse)

vs

"children are sexual beings at birth" premise

by the Kinsey Institute (and seemingly an underpinning of the Comprehensive Sexuality Education (CSE) agenda). According to Dr. Judith Reisman, the Kinsey fallout revolutionized sexuality with abominable research work by pedophiles who sexually abused multiple children as test subjects and concluded that children are sexual beings at birth.

We Stand Guard, LLC is part of a world-wide movement to stop child sexual abuse and exploitation in all its forms, which includes your support as well (thank you)!

To further this work, in 2018, my husband Randall and I attended the Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation (CESE) Global Summit to launch the Say "NO!" and TELL! training workbook. I remember hearing Kimberly Ells speak about the CSE agenda infiltrating nations and schools world-wide, exposing kids to pornographic concepts. As a friend and fellow child advocate, Kimberly has graciously offered to write this exclusive guest blog for the We Stand Guard readers so we can join forces to protect kids and strengthen families.

PLEASE NOTE MY WARNING: blog contains graphic sexual language, which IS a disturbing part of the curriculum FOR KIDS!

What You Need to Know About Comprehensive Sexuality Education
By Kimberly Ells

The day my daughter came home from school and told me her teacher recommended that she and her classmates contact Planned Parenthood if they were uncomfortable talking to their parents, I was deeply thankful I had talked to my daughter about sex before Planned Parenthood did. I also knew that day that my fight against comprehensive sexuality education—which I’d been fighting for the past six years—was far from over.

Comprehensive sexuality education is a graphic form of sex education infiltrating schools across the county, even at the earliest ages. School officials and legislators often adopt comprehensive sexuality education programs before fully understanding what they contain or the behaviors they promote. Comprehensive sexuality education (CSE) may be presented under appealing names (“human rights education,” “sexual abuse prevention,” “bullying prevention,” or “life skills programs”) but its core philosophies and content remain the same. Most CSE programs include some or all of the following elements:

• Promote sexual activity to children as a “right”

• Teach children to advocate for their “sexual rights”

• Teach children various ways to obtain sexual pleasure

• Teach children to sexually stimulate themselves

• Promote anal or oral sex to children or teach them these behaviors are safe

• Promote abortion as a right

• Denigrate the religious and cultural values of their parents or community

• Provide sexual counseling, information or services to minors without parental consent

 

Who Provides Comprehensive Sexuality Education Curriculum?

One of the largest purveyors of comprehensive sexuality education programs in the world is International Planned Parenthood Federation (IPPF). A major way IPPF advances their goal of achieving “sexual rights” for all youth is by implementing school programs that present sexual pleasure as an essential human right and then exposing children to graphic sexual materials. IPPF’s Exclaim! document for youth says, “Young people…are entitled to sexual pleasure and how to experience different forms of sexual pleasure is important for their health.” (See Exclaim! at IPPF.org)
 

What Does CSE Curriculum Promote?

Here are some resources Planned Parenthood uses to educate children about sexuality:

·      It’s Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health. This children’s book contains graphic illustrations of both male and female children masturbating. The book shows illustrations of entirely nude men and women having sex, and of naked girls and boys in a variety of sexual situations.

·      Sex is for ALL ages.Exclaim! Young People’s Guide to Sexual Rights: an IPPF Declaration,” promotes sexuality at ALL stages of life stating: 1) “There is a common misconception that young people are not, or should not be sexual beings with the exception of…married young people or young people above a certain age. Sexuality is a central aspect of being human during all phases of each person’s life.” 2) “Sexuality and sexual pleasure are important parts of being human for everyone-no matter what age, no matter if you’re married or not and no matter if you want to have children or not.” 3) “Any limitation on sexual rights must be non-discriminatory, including on the grounds of age.”


What is “Age Appropriate” for Your Child?

Proposals for CSE school programs often seek to reassure parents and policymakers by using the words “age appropriate,” to describe CSE programs. But the sexual content IPPF and other entities consider “age appropriate” may surprise you. The International Guidelines on Sexuality Education (2009) promoted by United Nations agencies are intended to drive sex education programs taught to children in schools worldwide. The following are excerpts from the “Learning Objectives” in those guidelines:


Learning Objectives for Level I (ages 5-8)

• “Girls and boys have private body parts that can feel pleasurable when touched by oneself.” (p. 43)

• “Touching and rubbing one’s genitals is called masturbation.” (p. 48)

• “Masturbation is not harmful, but should be done in private.” (p. 48)


Learning Objectives for Level II (ages 9-12)

• “Relationship between excitement and vaginal lubrication, penile erection and ejaculation.” (p. 44)

• “Many boys and girls begin to masturbate during puberty.” (p. 44)

• “Steps for proper use of condoms.” (p. 51)

• “Definition and function of orgasm.” (p. 49)

• “Legal abortion performed under sterile conditions by medically trained personnel is safe.” (p. 51)

 

Learning Objectives for Level III (ages 12-15)

• “Respect for the different sexual orientations and gender identity.” (p. 48)

• “Both men and women can give and receive sexual pleasure with a partner of the same or opposite sex.” (p. 50)  

• “Everyone is responsible for their own and their partner’s sexual pleasure and can learn to communicate their likes and dislikes.” (p. 50)

• “Access to safe abortion and post-abortion care.” (p. 52)

• Definition and description of the physical changes and stages of male and female human sexual response including orgasm. (p. 50)

As these excerpts show, comprehensive sexuality education is exactly what it claims to be: a comprehensive exploration of sexuality through explicit, pleasure-based curriculum. CSE programs minimize parental rights and values while emphasizing children’s rights to make their own sexual choices. Comprehensive sexuality education is a tool in the hands of a well-funded movement that seeks to transform the sexual norms of society through our impressionable children, and to turn a profit in the process.

 

Take Action

Here are three things you can do to protect your child and the children in your community from early sexualization through comprehensive sexuality education:

·      Watch The War on Children at Stop.CSE.org. This documentary produced by Family Watch International exposes the international forces pushing CSE and what people around the world are doing to fight it. (Please watch out of the presence of children, as its content is alarming.)

·      Go to ProtectChildHealth.org to learn what is happening in your state regarding CSE. Join with others in your area who are opposing CSE. Become vigilant at monitoring what is happening in your school district and at your state legislature related to sexual education and SPEAK UP. If CSE is already in your schools, seek to expose its content and advocate for OPT IN requirements to be put in place.

·      Teach your children that if anything they are taught at school makes them uncomfortable, they can excuse themselves, contact you, and tell you what they were taught and why it made them uncomfortable.

As we take a stand against CSE in our schools and teach our children the truth about sex and gender at home, we can protect them from the onslaught of sexual ideology surrounding them and us.

 

Kimberly Ells is the author of The Invincible Family: Why the Global Campaign to Crush Motherhood and Fatherhood Can’t Win which exposes UN agencies’ widespread promotion of sexual rights for children.

Visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and at InvincibleFamily.com.


Additional Resources

VIDEO: Sharon Slater’s presentation at the 2018 Coalition to End Sexual Exploitation Global Summit addresses the global agenda to sexualize children through the schools and how it plays out in U.S. schools.

Protect Your Children, Protect Your Families toolkit from Family Watch International

FamilyWatch.com- You will find a wealth of information, resources, videos, and policy briefs here.


Resources from Proponents of CSE

Exclaim! Young People’s Guide to Sexual Rights: an IPPF Declaration- presents children’s “right” to sex as a human right for people of all ages.

SIECUS Guidelines for teaching sexuality to youth

Healthy, Happy and Hot- IPPF’s official resource on sexual rights for HIV positive youth (Warning: graphic content)

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How does body safety and choosing healthy foods with kids connect? Well, we can practice decision-making, wellness, self-care affirmative feedback and positive body image as it relates to food to name a few, which can lay the foundation for teaching body safety. Because, when we consider our personal nutrition and relationship with food, we connect to our bodies. Supporting children in growing healthy self- images with nutrition, as an example, teaches them self-care - they learn their hearts, minds and bodies are worth it!

Plus, I like to strengthen the WeStandGuard.com content with a variety of other supportive topics beyond body safety, yet so closely related such as self-care.

Check out guest blog by Anya Willis @  Fitkids.info

Nurture Your Children Toward Healthier Choices

Navigating the myriad of lifestyle choices in today's world can be overwhelming, particularly for children. Thus, it's crucial for parents to step in and guide their youngsters toward making healthier decisions. While it’s not always easy, there are several things you can do to make the process fun for your little ones. This article offers a comprehensive set of advice and resources that can assist parents in instilling healthy habits in their children. Let's get started.

Involving Kids in Decision-Making

Involving children in meal planning and grocery shopping can greatly enhance their interest in healthier eating. Giving them a voice in food choices fosters a sense of ownership and encourages them to be open to nutritional options. One effective method is to collaboratively create a shopping list, or you might allow them to help you cook dinner. Another strategy is to allow them to pick out a new fruit or vegetable each week as a way to diversify their palate. These practices not only make children more receptive to healthy foods but also provide valuable learning experiences.

Incorporate Nutritious Foods

Mealtime offers a prime opportunity to enrich a child's diet with nutritious ingredients. Innovative approaches, like blending vegetables into smoothies or adding them to homemade muffins, can make the transition to healthy eating more enjoyable. The goal is to seamlessly weave nutrition into familiar foods , making it less of a chore for children to eat healthily. This creative incorporation aids in acclimating children to better eating practices without compromising on taste.

Encourage Regular Physical Exercise

Physical activity is vital for a child’s overall well-being. Family walks can be a fun and practical way to instill the habit of regular exercise. Moreover, if your neighborhood isn't pedestrian-friendly, look for an area with a high Walk Score of 70 or above to get your daily steps in. Such areas are generally safer and more conducive to walking, making it easier for your family to maintain an active lifestyle.

Foster a Positive Body Image

Media exposure can strongly influence children's views on body image, frequently presenting unattainable standards. Initiating conversations with your children about these media portrayals can help debunk myths about ideal body types. The emphasis should shift from chasing unrealistic images to adopting a balanced, healthy lifestyle. This approach aids in cultivating a positive body image and a healthier self-perception in children.

Ignite Their Interests

Each child has distinct interests that can significantly impact their well-being when explored. Identifying an activity that aligns with your child's passions can imbue them with a sense of purpose. Participation in extracurricular activities, whether it's art, sports, or technology , can enhance their social skills and offer alternative avenues for physical or mental engagement. This focused involvement can be instrumental in promoting a balanced, fulfilling lifestyle for your child.

Utilize Affirmative Feedback

Positive feedback is crucial for children, as it often serves as motivation to continue making good choices. When coming from trusted adults, this affirmation can be especially impactful. Commending your child for making healthy choices, such as choosing fruit over candy or practicing a new skill, encourages better decision-making. This cycle of affirmation and improved behavior reinforces the importance of positive reinforcement in a child's development.

Guiding children to make healthier choices is a long-term commitment that demands both patience and resourcefulness. However, by utilizing the practical tips and methods outlined above, you’re well on your way to setting them up for a future of wellbeing. Foster their interest in nutrition, encourage physical activities, engage them in dialogues about body image, help them find activities they love, and use affirmation as a powerful motivational tool. This balanced approach will enable you to lead your children down the path to a fulfilling, healthy life.

Have a question for the team at We Stand Guard ? Reach out today.

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In addition to last month's blog on A Look at Self-Care Activities for Kids , here is an interesting look at your own self-care, especially during transitions with kids growing up. In fact, I visited my triplet nephews this past Labor Day weekend and my brother and I were cracking up since their PJ bottoms were like crop pants - they have grown taller as they begin middle school! Surprise!!!

As a follow up to last month, check out Anya Willis' Part 2 guest blog on self-care (see more at https://fitkids.info/ ).  

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Turning Anxiety into Calm

It's natural for stress levels to peak during transitions. However, these moments provide a chance to develop effective stress-management strategies. Start with acknowledging the stressors. Once you identify them, use mindfulness exercises, such as deep breathing or meditation, to mitigate their impact. Incorporating physical activity can also make a significant difference. Exercise releases endorphins, which naturally reduces stress. So, the next time you find yourself overwhelmed, remember to take a step back and focus on your well-being.

Go Back to School

Returning to school is one of the best ways to revitalize your life and open doors in terms of a future career. There are plenty of options out there, as well. For instance, if you’ve ever thought about pursuing an online bachelor's degree in nursing , now is the time. Online nurses are in high demand, and if you’re open to the flexibility that comes with internet-based learning platforms, you can work toward your degree on your own schedule, from the comfort of your own home.

From Concept to Logo

Major life transitions can also offer the ideal moment to venture into entrepreneurship. Begin with research. Understand your target market, potential challenges, and financial requirements. Once you have a comprehensive plan, move to the execution phase. When it comes to establishing a brand identity , create a memorable image using free online logo makers. These platforms offer an array of customizable designs to give your business a professional edge, and a well-designed logo can do wonders for brand recognition.

Fostering Consistency

Adjusting to a new chapter in life often requires a revamped routine. Consistency is the cornerstone of habit formation , and the best way to ensure this is by designing a daily routine that aligns with your newfound goals. This can be anything from a workout schedule to set times for personal and professional growth. Not only does this help in maintaining a balanced life, but it also solidifies the positive changes you aim to make.

Legal and Financial Control through an LLC

If you opt for the entrepreneurial route, forming an LLC ( limited liability company ) is crucial. This legal structure provides personal liability protection and offers several tax benefits. It signifies a critical step towards becoming your own boss, putting you in control of your business and, by extension, your destiny. Consider consulting professionals to help you navigate the complexities of forming an LLC.

Balance Your Caffeine Intake

For many, caffeine is a daily necessity. However, it's easy to go overboard, especially during stressful periods. If you must drink caffeine, take the time to learn more about the different coffee drinks available. Whether it's opting for a lighter roast or mixing in decaf, these choices can help you maintain energy levels without sacrificing sleep quality.

Improve Your Social Circle

Relationships play a crucial role during transitional phases. This is an ideal time to assess your social circle and make necessary adjustments. If certain relationships are toxic, it’s time to distance yourself. Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive individuals can significantly boost your emotional and psychological well-being.

Repair Your Credit

Transitions often have financial implications. Use this time to review your credit report and take steps to fix any inconsistencies or debts. By managing your finances effectively, you lessen stress and lay the foundation for a stable future.

Goals with a Purpose: Mapping Your Journey

Setting clearly defined goals that resonate with your core values is fundamental. They act as a roadmap, guiding you through challenges and keeping you centered. A detailed, step-by-step plan can greatly assist in achieving these goals, and the focus it brings can be an invaluable asset.

The experience of undergoing a significant life transition can be exhilarating, daunting, and enriching all at once. Embracing these transitional phases with purposeful strategies can redefine challenges as opportunities for personal and professional growth. By applying the practices highlighted in this article, you're poised to emerge stronger, more empowered, and ready to seize future opportunities with aplomb.

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Kids cannot consent!

This month is NO PORN NOVEMBER. When you hear reports of pornography's abuse, the law and media may use various terminology to describe the victim of "child pornography" mixed up in prostitution by naming a "young lady" rather than accurately reflecting the actual age by saying a girl, child or minor.

However, there is no such thing as “child pornography” which seems to imply consent - children/minors cannot give consent! Images with any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (a person less than 18 years old) is specifically called child sexual abuse material or CSAM according to experts in the field.

Nevertheless, pornography of any aged person is sexual exploitation for allsince very often, the acts are real abuse of the women (including children, teens and men) and other “performers” because the industry preys on the vulnerable and eviscerates human dignity.It's a predatory industry since they know pornography can be like a drug with an addictive nature (feels like you cannot stop even if you want to), which changes and harms the brain for buyers and consumers. 

Did you know that 27% of older millennials say they started viewing porn before puberty ( Josh McDowell, The Porn Phenomenon )? In fact, exposing or showing pornography to a child/minor is an example of non-physical contact child sexual abuse, in which abusers may use for grooming kids and teens to normalize abuse. It is not a matter of if but when a child will most likely see pornography and be traumatized (some say average age is 8 yrs). Also, pornographic images of vulnerable men, women, teens and children through coercion or exchange of sexual acts for goods and services is known as sex trafficking.

Furthermore, according to The National Center on Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) , the CyberTipline has received over 82 million reports, reviewed over 322 million images/videos and identified over 19,000 victims of CSAM   - how can this be?! NCMEC says:

"United States federal law defines child pornography as any visual depiction of sexually explicit conduct involving a minor (a person less than 18 years old). Outside of the legal system, NCMEC chooses to refer to these images as Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM) to most accurately reflect what is depicted – the sexual abuse and exploitation of children. Not only do these images and videos document victims’ exploitation and abuse, but when these files are shared across the internet, child victims suffer re-victimization each time the image of their sexual abuse is viewed."

How is it usually detected?

The usual way to detect CSAM is when cloud services like Google Photos scan uploaded photos and compare them against a database of known CSAM images. This database is provided by NCMEC and similar organizations around the world. The actual matching process uses what’s known as a hash, or digital fingerprint. This is derived from key elements of the image, and is deliberately fuzzy so that it will continue to work when images are resized, cropped, or otherwise processed.  So, with this process in place,   why is CSAM still happening all over the Internet?

What else are tech companies doing to stop this atrocity on line?

What can we do to dismantle this multi-billion dollar global industry? 
An article  published by business news site, Quartz, tends to agree. The article places the industry’s value at anywhere between $6 billion and $97 billion, with the more realistic estimates ranging from $6 billion to $15 billion (Fight the New Drug blog).

Who are the buyers and consumers of CSAM?

How can you be a voice to free an enslaved child?
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